Most lives are lived with the
thought of what is to come. I believe that this is the reason there is so much
depression in the world. People go through life trying to guess what the future
holds which a lot of the time leads to failure. I have been able to witness
this by growing up in the “South Bay Bubble” in which outside pressure gets the
best of people. I admit that I use to be a victim of the bubble in which my
entire life revolved around certain outcomes and what the future holds.
However, with the tragic passing of one of my best friends, Mason, I began to
realize that maybe the future wasn’t as important as the present.
My goal for
the future is to try and slow down the present. I grew up with the sole purpose
of becoming as rich as I could possibly become. I thought that if I did this,
then all the good will have to follow. However, my parents use to always say,
“If you had to choose wealth or happiness, which would you choose?” Due to my
immaturity, I would answer wealth in a heartbeat because I just always thought
of happiness as a subunit of wealth. As I mature, I realize that when I slow
down my life and begin to smell the roses, and realize that the gift of life
itself is truly priceless. Happiness is a virtue. Life is nothing short of a gift
and we are so incredibly lucky to be given each and every day. Once people
begin to realize that greed leads to a dead end, while respect, love, and most
importantly happiness leads to a road of endless opportunities, this is when
they will truly be able to enjoy the gift of life.
Looking forward to reading more!
ReplyDeleteI agree Brett! I am so glad we have been best friends all our lives. I admire the way you look at everyday as a fresh outlook on life and happiness that puts a smile on everyones face!
ReplyDeleteI have loved growing up with you and especially being your neighbor. Your positivity, energy, and big smile has always created an impact on my life and everyone around you. You have a great future ahead of you and I am excited to see you kill it at Penn State! Love you bubba!
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